Dear someone in my place,
You feel like you’re struggling to keep it together. You are happy, motivated, and on top of the world one moment and the next moment with the same ferocity your arms and your heart burn with an ache only more pain and self harm can alleviate. It’s purely illogical and maddening, but that’s where you are right now. That’s how you feel right now- Off the rails and dying more and more each second. You’re prolonging the inevitable, you think. But some little voice in the back wants to speak up. Some small voice wants to shout to the heavens and shake you until you “snap out of this”! But it can’t, and you won’t, and that’s almost worse but not quite. While these feelings seem to come and go unexpectedly, the truth is they are here to stay. They are part of your journey, your struggle, and you. And you need to learn how to live and learn more from them.
Just as you talk and get to know yourself, I need you to listen to and get to know these feelings, these burning, red, hot, seemingly illogical, and extremely volatile feelings because they aren’t going anywhere anytime soon. Give into these feelings and sensations that want to overpower. Start small and start smart. Give up control for a set amount of time, let the emotions flood you, notice and identify each and every one of them, but do not let them overpower you. Listen, understand, and register what it all means and where you are at the moment, then turn them off and celebrate that you listened and didn’t act. You took control without undermining your feelings, and, in doing so, they no longer control you.
You can feel the agony and pain of a thousand souls, and that won’t break you because you are more than your suffering. You are a beautiful collision of imperfections, tragedies, creativity, and hope. You are more than the world is prepared to understand at the moment, and, above all else, remember that for all your seeming complications, contradictions, and confusions, you are one perfect collision of everything. You are you, and all your feelings are you regardless of how frustrating and depressing they may be. Every part of you deserves to be heard. Do not silence some beautiful part of yourself no matter how difficult and rebellious that part of you might be, your suicidal ideation/self-harm tendencies/depression/PTSD/anxiety/fear/mental illness is a part of you.
Take care and love all of yourself because you deserve nothing less.
❤ life as an agoraphobe